Browse
Top articles
How to Meditate: Meditation 101 for Beginners
10 Science-Backed Benefits of Meditation
What is Meditation?
Try free for 7 days.
How to Meditate: Meditation 101 for Beginners
10 Science-Backed Benefits of Meditation
What is Meditation?
Benefits of Mindfulness: Mindful Living Can Change Your Life
Mindfulness 101: A Beginner's Guide
00:00
00:00
Personalized support for learning how to integrate mindfulness into your life. Delivered fresh everyday by our world renowned experts. Choose meditation duration:
Hi, and welcome to your Daily Mindfulness. Today I'm going to talk about the possibility of living life without a story. So what do I mean by life without a story? Well, have you ever seen a director's commentary of a film? So, this is where the director of a film will comment on what was happening in the making of the movie. So how it works is the original film is playing, but with muted volume, and then you hear the director's voiceover providing their own personal take on what was happening at that point in the making of the movie. So the whole way through the movie, they're speaking over the top and adding their viewpoints, their thoughts, their stories, and their opinions.
Now most people hardly ever watch these to the end because they get a bit boring, but this is a good analogy of what it's like living with a human mind. You know, we constantly have two things happening. We have our direct experience or what we sometimes call our primary experience. And this is the direct experience, the actual experience of our lives - the colors, the shapes, the experiences, our sense perceptions. Then we also have have in any given moment, our secondary experience.
This is all the thoughts we have about primary experience. So we have our viewpoints, our opinions, our judgments, our beliefs, all this mental commentary that we have going on in the mind. Anyone with a normal human mind has this going on, we all do it. But the problem is, that for many of us, our mental commentary can become so ongoing, so loud and so relentless that our actual experience of life itself can start to feel like it's been muted and dulled by the mind's noise. Life can start to lose its vividness, vibrancy, mystery, and joy.
It's a bit like that director's commentary, you know, the voice in our heads could really take the fun out of our actual experience that we're trying to have. It can make it really hard to fully connect. So mindfulness offers us a way to reconnect with the full color, richness, the beauty of our lives again. It allows us, you could say, to kind of turn the volume dial down on the mind as we reclaim more of our attention that was caught up in secondary experience, the thoughts in the mind, and we place it back in our primary experience, our direct experience of what's happening moment to moment in our lives. So today, whenever you find yourself caught up in the director's commentary of your life, that secondary experience, see if you can just notice that and then wherever possible, just practice bringing your focus back to your primary experience, your sense perceptions - what you can feel, see, hear, smell, and taste.
In this way, we get to take a break from that constant scene by scene voiceover. Good, bad, right, wrong, judgments, opinions, and storymaking of all kinds. And we open two rich new vistas of our lives. And as we open our minds and hearts to the beauty, the wonder and the simplicity of the world around us, we simultaneously reconnect with presence and inner peace. So as always, thank you for your practice and your presence here with us.
Now let's settle in for today's meditation.
Life Without a Story
Personalized support for learning how to integrate mindfulness into your life. Delivered fresh everyday by our world renowned experts. Choose meditation duration:
Duration
Your default time is based on your progress and is changed automatically as you practice.
Hi, and welcome to your Daily Mindfulness. Today I'm going to talk about the possibility of living life without a story. So what do I mean by life without a story? Well, have you ever seen a director's commentary of a film? So, this is where the director of a film will comment on what was happening in the making of the movie. So how it works is the original film is playing, but with muted volume, and then you hear the director's voiceover providing their own personal take on what was happening at that point in the making of the movie. So the whole way through the movie, they're speaking over the top and adding their viewpoints, their thoughts, their stories, and their opinions.
Now most people hardly ever watch these to the end because they get a bit boring, but this is a good analogy of what it's like living with a human mind. You know, we constantly have two things happening. We have our direct experience or what we sometimes call our primary experience. And this is the direct experience, the actual experience of our lives - the colors, the shapes, the experiences, our sense perceptions. Then we also have have in any given moment, our secondary experience.
This is all the thoughts we have about primary experience. So we have our viewpoints, our opinions, our judgments, our beliefs, all this mental commentary that we have going on in the mind. Anyone with a normal human mind has this going on, we all do it. But the problem is, that for many of us, our mental commentary can become so ongoing, so loud and so relentless that our actual experience of life itself can start to feel like it's been muted and dulled by the mind's noise. Life can start to lose its vividness, vibrancy, mystery, and joy.
It's a bit like that director's commentary, you know, the voice in our heads could really take the fun out of our actual experience that we're trying to have. It can make it really hard to fully connect. So mindfulness offers us a way to reconnect with the full color, richness, the beauty of our lives again. It allows us, you could say, to kind of turn the volume dial down on the mind as we reclaim more of our attention that was caught up in secondary experience, the thoughts in the mind, and we place it back in our primary experience, our direct experience of what's happening moment to moment in our lives. So today, whenever you find yourself caught up in the director's commentary of your life, that secondary experience, see if you can just notice that and then wherever possible, just practice bringing your focus back to your primary experience, your sense perceptions - what you can feel, see, hear, smell, and taste.
In this way, we get to take a break from that constant scene by scene voiceover. Good, bad, right, wrong, judgments, opinions, and storymaking of all kinds. And we open two rich new vistas of our lives. And as we open our minds and hearts to the beauty, the wonder and the simplicity of the world around us, we simultaneously reconnect with presence and inner peace. So as always, thank you for your practice and your presence here with us.
Now let's settle in for today's meditation.
Duration
Play in-app
Scan the following QR code with your camera app to open it on our mobile app
Get Unlimited Access
A Mindfulness Plus+ subscription gives you unlimited access to a world of premium mindfulness content.
Email Missing
We couldn’t detect your email with the SSO provider you have selected.We are here to make a positive impact on the world. We never want to sell you something that hasn’t helped you live a better life. That’s why if you’re unhappy with any purchase from us, you have 30 days to get a full refund and your money back.
If you subscribed to Mindfulness Plus+ and are unhappy with your purchase, please get in contact with us within the 30-day period and we’ll refund your purchase.
Learn more about our Mindfulness Guarantee.
Mindfulness
We believe in a world where everybody has access to the life-changing skills of mindfulness.
Private Browsing
We believe in a world where everybody has access to the life-changing skills of mindfulness.
Annual membership
$0
This is the app I turn to when I want to feel calm and loved.
- Abby
Melli has a beautiful way of guiding and reminding us of the stillness within.
- Adrienne James
I have been on a journey of healing and learning self-love. Amidst the work, I have been using the mindfulness app for the gentle reminders, guides to the moment (especially the difficult ones).
Kelly Boys offers a fresh and illuminating take on how to step out of lifelong patterns that keep snagging us.
- Tara Brach, PhD
Truly life changing. This isn't solely meditation and mindfulness...this is about striving to be the best the versions of ourselves.
- Marisa, Plus+ Member
Relaxing and assuring beyond description... thank you, Cory.
- Babs312
This is the app I turn to when I want to feel calm and loved.
- Abby
Melli has a beautiful way of guiding and reminding us of the stillness within.
- Adrienne James
I have been on a journey of healing and learning self-love. Amidst the work, I have been using the mindfulness app for the gentle reminders, guides to the moment (especially the difficult ones).
Kelly Boys offers a fresh and illuminating take on how to step out of lifelong patterns that keep snagging us.
- Tara Brach, PhD
Truly life changing. This isn't solely meditation and mindfulness...this is about striving to be the best the versions of ourselves.
- Marisa, Plus+ Member
Relaxing and assuring beyond description... thank you, Cory.
- Babs312
This is the app I turn to when I want to feel calm and loved.
- Abby
Melli has a beautiful way of guiding and reminding us of the stillness within.
- Adrienne James
I have been on a journey of healing and learning self-love. Amidst the work, I have been using the mindfulness app for the gentle reminders, guides to the moment (especially the difficult ones).
Kelly Boys offers a fresh and illuminating take on how to step out of lifelong patterns that keep snagging us.
- Tara Brach, PhD
Truly life changing. This isn't solely meditation and mindfulness...this is about striving to be the best the versions of ourselves.
- Marisa, Plus+ Member
Relaxing and assuring beyond description... thank you, Cory.
- Babs312
Shamash's guidance is a gift of wisdom to help us in our busy and stressful lives.
- Paul Gilbert, PhD, FBPsS, OBE, Centre for Compassion Research and Training, University of Derby, United Kingdom
Excellent! Cory gently guides you into internal peace.
- Steve Ericson
A necessary tool for those who feel lost.
- Piper
Just want to say a big thankyou to all involved as this has had a positive impact in my daily life 🙏 Valuable teachings that have allowed me to have a better relationship not only with those around me, but with myself. Heal ourselves and we heal the world 💫✨🌍
- Marty
I start every day with Cory or Melli for my daily practice. Including this app into my practice helps me continue to build more mental focus and understanding of my thought processes. What a welcome and powerful gift.
- Oku
Shamash's guidance is a gift of wisdom to help us in our busy and stressful lives.
- Paul Gilbert, PhD, FBPsS, OBE, Centre for Compassion Research and Training, University of Derby, United Kingdom
Excellent! Cory gently guides you into internal peace.
- Steve Ericson
A necessary tool for those who feel lost.
- Piper
Just want to say a big thankyou to all involved as this has had a positive impact in my daily life 🙏 Valuable teachings that have allowed me to have a better relationship not only with those around me, but with myself. Heal ourselves and we heal the world 💫✨🌍
- Marty
I start every day with Cory or Melli for my daily practice. Including this app into my practice helps me continue to build more mental focus and understanding of my thought processes. What a welcome and powerful gift.
- Oku
Shamash's guidance is a gift of wisdom to help us in our busy and stressful lives.
- Paul Gilbert, PhD, FBPsS, OBE, Centre for Compassion Research and Training, University of Derby, United Kingdom
Excellent! Cory gently guides you into internal peace.
- Steve Ericson
A necessary tool for those who feel lost.
- Piper
Just want to say a big thankyou to all involved as this has had a positive impact in my daily life 🙏 Valuable teachings that have allowed me to have a better relationship not only with those around me, but with myself. Heal ourselves and we heal the world 💫✨🌍
- Marty
I start every day with Cory or Melli for my daily practice. Including this app into my practice helps me continue to build more mental focus and understanding of my thought processes. What a welcome and powerful gift.
- Oku
Thank you for joining us
Dive into the full library and enjoy all it has to offer!
Claim your free access
Create a mindfulness account and we’ll unlock this premium session in your account forever.
7-Days free trial, cancel anytime.
Complete a few quick questions to make your own personalized mindfulness plan.
Sign up or login to your mindfulness account to proceed.
Sign up or login to your mindfulness account to proceed.
Mindfulness
One membership to gain access to a world of premium mindfulness content created to help you live happier and stress less.